Where’s the waiting list of members who have sent me a “My Friends invitation” ?

Please use the following link to access the waiting list.
http://lang-8.com/friends/confirm

A. If the notifications aren’t showing up on your home page
If notifications on your home page aren’t showing up, please try following things.

1, Please delete your browser cache.
or
2, Please type ctrl+r.

Then it should work fine.

B. in case you have received a notification e-mail, but you cannot find the waiting list.

Maybe the user who sent you an invitation has already deleted his/her Lang-8 account for some reason.
In this case,  you will not receive any invitation messages, and cannot accept the invitation.
This sometimes happens when the invitation was sent by a spammer.